Moving On

Mama Mary and baby Jesus found new homes. Winter coats and flannel robes will keep someone else warm this year. Fancy jewelries and sequined dresses must go as well. All the other stuff went into 7 boxes.

My mother had finally closed up her home in America. 25 years stuffed into 7 boxes.
Comfort wear: Cotton blouses, denim pants, bedroom slippers and walking shoes.
Serving platters, measuring spoons, mixer and blender plus 4 kitchen knives. They will continue to see more parties and feed more guests. Dated pictures, greeting cards, letters from far away places and tiny notes to self will soon find warmer storage space.



Watching her tenderly wrap a fragile vase or pause to take in again the words from a thank you note was cause for joy but at the same time made her shed a tear at the remembrance. I kept my distance as my mother meticulously went through each and every personal article. Only she could decide what to pass on or put in the boxes. I could not and would not deny her that.



In between the sorting and the packing, there were phone calls made to relatives and friends. And those who lived near-by happily dropped in for a chat and to accept gratefully some personal items.

“Yes, I am leaving,” my mother tells them all, “ but if God is merciful, I will be back soon. This time more of a visitor than a resident.”

It is heartening to hear friends and family vie to host her stay when she does visit.

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Moving on brings mixed feelings. Sadness at putting closure to a life that had many memories and happiness at the thought of starting fresh. But such is life--- a continuing process of moving on.
One lesson learned from being with my mother those two weeks: travel light. A second lesson learned from my mother, is the following recipe:

USA Styled Sotanghon Pancit

250 grams of sotanghon noodle, soaked in water
1 c cubed cooked ham
1 c sliced breast of left-over rotisserie chicken
½ c sliced boiled pork (optional)
1 small onion, diced
1 clove garlic, minced
½ c chicaro (peas)
1 sliced small carrot
1 1/2 c sliced chinese cabbage (pechay) or cabbage
1-2 green jalapeno (sili espada or sili mahaba)—maybe omitted
Soy Sauce, salt and pepper—to taste
4-5 c Chicken stock (may come from or a mixture of boiling the left over bones of the rotisserie chicken; canned stock; or made from 2 knorr chicken cubes dissolved in 4 cups of water)—my mother prefers the canned chicken stock

Saute the garlic and onion in a deep pot. Drop in the cubed ham and the sliced chicken and pork if using. After a quick stir, add the stock. Simmer for 5-10 minutes. Add the carrots and the peas and simmer for 1-2 minutes—do not overcook. Add the jalapeno pepper/s. Season with soyu sauce, salt and pepper. Please note to add more of the seasoning as adding the noodles tend to make the dish bland. Add the drained noodles and mix. If the mixture looks dry, add more stock. Lastly, add the Chinese cabbage and close the lid of the pot to wilt the leaves. Season to taste with more soy sauce. Before serving, remove the jalapeno. Serve with more soy sauce and lemon on the side.

Note:
Pancit is a very personal dish —so you can add other ingredients of choice: shelled shrimps, sliced mushrooms, kinchay and the like.
If you want more noodles than meat, you can go ahead and increase amount of noodles.
To facilitate easy serving, you might want to cut the noodles as they soaked to reasonable length.
You could also boil some fresh chicken breast instead of using left over chicken.
Noodles will mop up the liquid, so be sure to have lots of chicken stock to add as you cook this dish.



That’s it, Pancit : )

Start with a Bam-i

Time does fly when one is having fun and the two years as a retiree has been all that I wanted and more. I have to say that life after 30-years of corporate work continues to get better. In the short time, I have gained more friends than wrinkles; and you my friends are more than enough reason for me to continue with my musings.

So what do I have "cooking" for such wonderful people at the start of a brand new year?!?! Why only the best that Cebuano cuisine can offer: I give you Bam-i. (Nope, this is not the Cebuano version of W. Disney's "Bambi".) Bam-i is a soupy noodle dish bursting with flavor that can only be described as "Lami kaayo!" (delicious) .

My first encounter with "Bam-i" was at my first Noche Buena (Christmas dinner) as a new member in my husband's family. There was the usual fare of ham and cheese and tsokolate. But in their home, Bam-i was the most welcomed treat. It's aroma and warmth was enough to drive the chills out of one's bones.

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The following recipe was taught to me by my mother-in-law. This recipe has been passed on from mother to daughter from one generation to the next. If you have done some cooking or messing around in the kitchen, you will know that a good cook does not relay on exact measurements. She (or he) uses her senses-- smell, taste, touch, sight and even hearing. Measurements are at best estimates or guide-- so trust your senses and let's begin.

Bam-i ni Mommy Janet

Ingredients:

1/2 k kasim
1 chicken breast
1 small onion, quartered
1 c shelled small shrimps
1c shredded dried squid-- the rounded one, not the elongated one
1/2 c tengga sa daga (mushroom)
1 small pack of miki (egg noodle)-- about 1/2 k
300 grams of sotanghon (glass noodle)
1 Knorr chicken cube
1 med. onion, sliced
3 cloves of garlic, sliced
some cooking oil
soy sauce and/or patis (fish sauce)
salt, pepper
green onions, sliced



Preparation:
First, you got to have a lot of soup stock. So boil the chicken and the pork in 5-6 cups of water with a small onion and a pinch of salt. Once the meat is tender; remove from stock and set aside to cool. Once cooled, shred the chicken meat and cut the pork into thin strips.



Soak the mushroom in some water and when soften cut into strips as well.

Shell and de-vein the shrimps.

Ready the onion and the garlic by slicing them thinly.

Soak the sotanghon.

Cooking:
Saute the garlic, then the onion in a little oil. Follow this with the knorr cube, shrimps, the chicken and the pork. Add the squid and the mushroom. Then add enough stock to cover. Simmer over low flame until flavours have blended.



When serving time is almost near, add the miki and the sotanghon (drained of it's water) to the soup. Check that your soup does not dry out. If it does, add the reserve stock. Stir and season with the soy sauce, salt and pepper.

Serving:
Put this noodle soup in a pretty bowl and sprinkle sliced green onions on top. Serve with pride.

Tips:
• Knorr cubes may be omitted. Although these magic cubes does add the necessary kick (maybe because of the MSG).
• To have more stock on hand, you could boil some chicken back and neck pieces and reserve the resulting stock.
• To devein shrimp, after shelling slit the back and remove the black vein. This is the shrimp's intestine (yuk!)
• As you will realize at the end of the cooking experience, noodles tend to soak up the broth in which it has been placed in. So it is important to have on hand extra soup stock. To guarantee that this is a soupy dish and not some ordinary pancit guisado creation, do not add the noodles until close to serving time so that the noodles will not have time to soak up the stock.
• Use a scissors to cut the squid into match stick strips.
• You may increase, decrease or omit the amount of meat (pork, chicken, shrimps, squid) depending on your preference.



Here's hoping this soup warms up your spirit and jump starts your year in the right direction.